Everybody has the great - What if question !!!

Many times in our life, we have the What-if question, about decisions we made or something that didn't happen or that old girlfriend that we didn't connect with, etc. etc.

What didn't happen, we can only guess at this time, as to what it would had been, ad it would be only a guess and things could had turned out either good or very bad. Remember that you took that decision, at time in past for a reason or some circumstance .

Look at your life Now. Do you feel your life is good now ? 

If your Answer is YES , be thankful that your life has turned out very good , even tough you had missed on certain things or people in life. It is much better now, for sure . It might had turned out to be not so good, had those past events happened in your life, and your life would had taken altogether different turn and it would be a different life you would be leading now.

So stop worrying about your past decisions and feel blessed for a happy life you have NOW.

If you are worrying about a What-If question in present, than just go and ask for it. Ask for that raise you feel you deserve OR Ask that girl out that you had been waiting for a long time , at worst you will get a NO answer, nothing to loose in that. In future, you can say, hey at least I tried. The What-If feeling is worst, if you don't even try. The outcomes can vary, which is not something you control. 

Outcomes of anything we do or any action we take, is result of so many secondary events that its difficult to guess the exact outcome. We can only guess the probabilities. So if you have guessed probability of a positive event of being high, go for it for sure. Sometimes your positive guess, might not agree with the outcome you get, that does not mean you were wrong, it just means that the secondary influencing factors made the outcome different from what you were expecting.

So take a step back and reevaluate your assumptions and you might learn something new. If your assumptions are still positive, keep working on it and the outcome will turn out to be positive. it might just take few more attempts. People sometimes call this Luck or hand of god etc. So keep that light lighted and don't let it go. Things will eventually happen. In past it was called a prophecy . So its  a prophecy that you will SUCCEED . Don't let those positive thoughts die. Keep working on it. You are bound to get the results.