Do you blame others
for the misfortunes in your life ?
Let's see !!
Do you let others
make decisions for you or have your relied on others to help you with your
decisions ?
Do you feel you can't make those decisions by yourself and always
your parents or siblings or
friends to help out ?
Well, if you are one
of the above, then you should not be crying and blaming others anyway.
If you
don’t have courage to make your own decisions also, than what's the point.
Next time if you
feel like blaming somebody, blame
yourself for not having the courage to take
your own decision and stop whining .
Having the freedom to make your own decision is the
true freedom you have got.
So use that.
If you are the kind
of person who takes his/her own decisions, congratulations !!
You have done
something right to start.
If things did not
work out the way they should , you are fully responsible for them.
It's OK to screw up or get screwed .
Get up, dust off the
mishaps and move on in life.
Learn from the
mistakes , on how to avoid such happenings in future or how to minimize the
damage if it happens again.
It's OK to hear out
what others have to say, but remember , you are the boss and you are
ultimately
responsible for your own actions. So assimilate everything and make the best
decision.
Consider the what-if
scenarios, if the tide goes against you and work out a plan to minimize the damage.
Murphy's law always
applies : Anything that can go wrong, will go wrong.
That doesn’t mean
you should sit tight and do nothing.
This world is ruled by random events , so don't be hard on yourself . Read this article, it might make few things clear : Is there a God or this world is totally Random ?
Go on make great decisions and make this world a better place for yourself and others.
